Pastor Jimmy Odukoya reportedly getting married to the wife of his friend

This life no balance at all!

Imagine Pastor Jimmy Odukoya reportedly getting married to the wife of his friend, a woman he was even among the groomsmen at her wedding. Honestly, what is happening to the value of friendship?

Then there's the woman in Enugu Ukehe whose story went viral, the one we all contributed money for( I dey among those who sent her a token, cause I know some will be wondering why that collective noun) after she was allegedly abandoned by her husband, his second wife, and their children during his title taking ceremony. The same woman who had her co-wife as her maid of honour, imagine that.

What exactly is going on with people and betrayal these days? How do you comfortably betray someone who trusted you, someone who considered you a friend, someone who gave you a place in their life, and still walk around with your shoulders high as though you did nothing wrong?

The most shocking part is that some people are no longer remorseful about their actions. They don't care what people say, they don't feel ashamed, and in some cases, they even seem proud of the damage they have caused.

Has friendship lost its meaning? Has loyalty become an outdated virtue? Or have people simply become so selfish that they no longer care whose heart they break as long as they get what they want?

Because honestly, if the people you call friends can comfortably betray you, then who exactly are you supposed to trust?

When did betraying your friend become something to be proud of? And what happened to conscience?

Written by: Ruth Abioye on Facebook